To engage or not is a personal matter for everyone. If you and your partner are comfortable, then why not. But there are a number of related risks that we should warn about.
Having sex during menstruation: Entails the risk of unplanned pregnancy (if not protected). Entails the risk of penetration of a number of sexually transmitted infections due to the blood (and very favorable for the development of bacteria) environment of the vagina.
Menstruation is not a disease, but a natural process that occurs monthly in every woman's body. The arrival of the first menstruation indicates that you are healthy, you are ovulating and will be able to have children in the future.
Don't be alarmed, most likely you have a longer cycle this is normal Sometimes events in your life can delay ovulation and egg maturation. When this happens, menstruation comes later.
Possible causes of delayed ovulation:
- Stress
- A lot of physical activity.
- Extreme diet (anorexia)
- Emotional distress.
In the hymen there is a hole with a diameter of 1.5-2 cm, through which menstrual discharge comes out. Kotex tampons are specially designed to pass freely into this hole, but at the same time reliably protect against leaks. In addition, during menstruation, the hymen becomes very elastic, so it is difficult to damage it.
Don't worry and calmly use tampons if they are more convenient for you. Carefully read the instructions to make sure that you are inserting the tampon correctly.
Everything is individual and each girl's menstruation begins when the body is ripe for it (on average from 8 to 18 years old). A lot depends on our lifestyle and genetic predispositions.
An interesting fact: in girls whose menstruation begins earlier, it stops after the age of 50. In girls whose menstruation begins later, it sometimes stops at the age of about 40 years!
If this has not happened to your sister before, and she had sex about two weeks before the start of her period, one of the reasons may be that she is pregnant. When a fertilized egg penetrates into the lining of the uterus, it can cause a slight bleeding. Women think it's menstruation, but in fact they are pregnant. We would advise her to buy herself an express pregnancy test.
Another reason for such "one-day periods" can be hormonal drugs.
In any case, we recommend that you consult a doctor.
In some women, copious painful periods are associated with excessive adipose tissue in which estrogen accumulates. Estrogen is a hormone that helps the inner lining of the uterus grow. More estrogen = thicker lining = abundant menstruation.
If the pain decreases when exposed to heat–a bath, shower, or hot water bottle–it's probably a "menstrual pain" that will pass. Ask your doctor to recommend a painkiller that will help you get through these difficult days! If the pain is unbearable, then be sure to contact a gynecologist.
Let's tell you about the process of menstruation.
Imagine a uterus the size of your clenched fist – now clench your fist to simulate "contractions", this is how the uterus behaves before menstruation to destroy the inner lining called the endometrium. That's why my stomach hurts. Breathe deeply, stroke your stomach, apply warm.
Don't worry ahead of time. The delay can be caused by various reasons, including those unrelated to pregnancy: irregular menstrual cycle, intense sports, stress, the use of certain medications, weight changes. If menstruation is delayed for 6-7 days, these are normal fluctuations in the cycle.
If the delay lasts more than 7 days, or bothers you for some other reason, it is better to consult a gynecologist. Only a professional will be able to correctly determine the reason for the delay.
First of all, don't be afraid! Inserting a tampon is not scary and not dangerous.
To get started, read the instructions in the package, it describes in detail and shows the procedure for inserting a tampon. But if there are still misunderstandings, then our mini-instructions will help you!
- Make sure your hands are clean.
- Release the tampon from the packaging (it opens by folding along the line) and pull the thread.
- Decide in which position it will be convenient to insert a tampon. Try doing this while sitting on the toilet, or standing with one foot on the edge of the tub.
- Take the tampon as it is convenient. The most preferable way is to place the index finger at the base of the tampon, and leave the thread free.
- Relax and gently insert the tampon into the base of the vagina: first up and then diagonally to the back. Make sure that the thread remains outside.
- Now try walking, jumping, sitting – make sure that the tampon sits comfortably. If you don't feel it – that's right! If the tampon is felt inside, try to move it a little further. Do not worry, the tampon will not "get lost" anywhere and will not go too far.